It has been a long time since I’ve posted on here. I didn’t know what to say to you. I still don’t, but I’m going to try. I am striving to be brave, so here’s my messy, ugly story that I’m going to share with you, bravely.
During worship on Wednesday night, a song played that I couldn’t sing: “You Never Let Go” by Matt Redman. I felt like God had let go of me and let go of my baby and I just… I couldn’t sing. I left instead. See, this song says that even in the trials, even in the depths of despair, the Lord is right beside me, which is absolutely true and absolutely based on Scripture. The song is actually dripping with truth, but in that tender, vulnerable, broken moment, I couldn’t believe one word of the song. I knew all these things to be true in my head, but my heart and my vocal chords could not honestly say, “still I will praise you.” I was angry with God and definitely not in a worshipful place. I couldn’t sing.
I had a miscarriage. Second one this year. I have two babies, Leonard and Sam, that I will not get to see this side of Heaven. I cry every single day because my heart is broken into a million gazillion pieces. I lost Sam a week ago, and I don’t know what to do with myself. I am more sad than I ever thought possible. Trying to move through the grieving process feels like I’ve fallen into quicksand and there is no way out.
So here’s what I’m going to do: I’m going to unsheathe my sword and fight back against all the lies that are bombarding me. Because God really never lets go, and I need to believe that again. All of my swords today are from Isaiah 40.
LIE: I’m not important enough, good enough, faithful enough to have a
big family like I’ve always dreamed about.
TRUTH: He is gently leading me, and I am close to the Lord’s heart.
big family like I’ve always dreamed about.
TRUTH: He is gently leading me, and I am close to the Lord’s heart.
11 He tends his flock like a shepherd:
He gathers the lambs in his arms
and carries them close to his heart;
he gently leads those that have young.
He gathers the lambs in his arms
and carries them close to his heart;
he gently leads those that have young.
LIE: My heart will never heal.
TRUTH: The Lord will renew my strength. My strength must
come from Him because alone, I will grow weary.
TRUTH: The Lord will renew my strength. My strength must
come from Him because alone, I will grow weary.
29 He gives strength to the weary
and increases the power of the weak.
30 Even youths grow tired and weary,
and young men stumble and fall;
31 but those who hope in the Lord
will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint.
and increases the power of the weak.
30 Even youths grow tired and weary,
and young men stumble and fall;
31 but those who hope in the Lord
will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint.
LIE: God didn’t protect Leonard or Sam.
TRUTH: God has the whole world in His hands and that includes my children.
TRUTH: God has the whole world in His hands and that includes my children.
12 Who has measured the waters in the hollow of his hand,
or with the breadth of his hand marked off the heavens?
Who has held the dust of the earth in a basket,
or weighed the mountains on the scales
and the hills in a balance?
or with the breadth of his hand marked off the heavens?
Who has held the dust of the earth in a basket,
or weighed the mountains on the scales
and the hills in a balance?
LIE: Miscarriages happen because God
is not fully in control of this life.
TRUTH: God is the Creator, and His ways are
beyond my wildest imaginations.
is not fully in control of this life.
TRUTH: God is the Creator, and His ways are
beyond my wildest imaginations.
28 Do you not know?
Have you not heard?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary,
and his understanding no one can fathom.
Have you not heard?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary,
and his understanding no one can fathom.
Isaiah 40 is now posted next to my mirror in my bathroom. When I cry, I go to the bathroom to wash my face and get a tissue, so I figure this is the best place for it. Next time I cry, I will need to read these words again.
On to Madagascar things! After we found out we were pregnant with Sam, we prayed about when the trip should be and came to the conclusion that it would wait until after the baby was born and after I was done nursing. That put us in the summer of 2016. Several factors went into this decision. First, I prayed and prayed and was certain that was what God was telling me. Second, my hubby wasn’t comfortable with me flying around the world pregnant, and if he’s not behind me on any ministry I want to be a part of, I don’t do it. Third, Domoina preferred later rather than earlier. Her daughter is taking a major exam around the same time I was planning to travel, and she would like that time to spend with her daughter preparing for that test. Finally, the funds just weren’t there. Going sooner meant I needed the money yesterday. So we settled on later rather than sooner with the clause that if God abundantly and clearly provided a way to go in the spring, I would leap at it and go.
But now we’re not pregnant. So, when will I be going to the ends of the earth? Well, I don’t know but here’s my current plan. When God provides the funds, I will go. I’m not going to pick a date. I’m not going to plan a thing. I will wait on the Lord. I will wait until God provides another baby for us, if that’s His will. I have three babies, and I’ve only had the opportunity to hold one of them. I am so incredibly grateful to snuggle with Amelia daily. She is amazing, and I am blessed. I will wait until God provides the funds for Madagascar. I cannot go unless God sends the money, maybe through you! If you would like to see God use your resources in Madagascar, you can donate to my Indigogo campaign. I will wait until God provides because the Lord is the Provider.
Ends of the earth, here I come! (When God provides)
P.S. I’ve been listening to You Never Let Go on repeat while writing this. I can sing it honestly, now. I will still praise Him even though I am in the valley.